Female, all the way, but I'm a very small lady so I wear l'il boy jeans and shoes (as well as they guy anime-shirts, they're just so much cooler half the time!)
So I voted Kazuki
Lin, major props for being one of the coolest mom's out there. I think I'm ranking you up there with my mom in awesomeness, and she used to send me new anime DVD's in college (and she's a NON fan!) Your son is very lucky, and I hope he knows it. If he doesn't, point him our way, we'll set him strait!